Some Great and Helpful Responses

I think I’ve thanked all of you readers who have responded to my inquiry about what you value most, but if I missed you, I’ll thank you now. Thanks to all of you who spent time thinking about my question.

Every response I received inched me closer to the realization that was already brewing internally: it is time to pursue activism that has the potential to yield noticeable positive effects. It is time to focus on my locale. I will still send the occasional post or action alert to ask for support of great organizations or to urge the stoppage of another egregious bill. But I won’t be spending so much time staying up-to-date on the latest climate news, nor will I spend so much energy trying to figure out a way to frame our dire situation in hopes of inspiring more people to action. I’ve realized that metaphor and analogy are concepts of symbolic thought, a product of literate civilized culture, and that in searching for a great metaphor, I’ve been caught in the trap of separation from the real world, separation from that which truly sustains us: the earth. Along those lines of thought, I intend to do a post listing the most influential books I’ve read, and the most influential experiences I’ve had. That will take more thought and time than I will give right now, but when we have a very hot stretch of weather, I may be able to make that a priority. In the meantime, I’d love to hear from any readers with their list of influential books and descriptions of world-view-shaping experiences.

For this post, I’d just like to share some of the responses I’ve gotten, for I think they will be of value to everyone. I’m grateful to have such thoughtful and articulate friends and family. I’ve edited some comments to make them anonymous. If any of you who sent the responses below wish to have your comment removed, please contact me, and I’ll do it.

To the question, “What do you value most?” (which I also implied could be asked “What is your most deeply held belief?”), I got these responses:

• The most important thing to me is resisting the globalized death culture of civilization/imperialism and joining with indigenous cultures worldwide in re-establishing primacy of bioregional specific cultures in reverent relationship to Mother Earth and all life upon her.


• The things I value most are: water, soil, gardens, trees, wildlife, friends of like mind, habitat.


• For me, the loss that most sears my heart is when people are deprived of the right to carry on harmless lifeways they have been practicing for centuries. It could be farmers who are not allowed to sell raw milk because of rules written by corporate "dairies", or villagers who are no longer able to harvest their common forests because of environmental degradation that wasn't their fault, or because the resources are now critically endangered because of short-term-thinking policies, or because of political or military folly. The right to enact the ancient dances of sustenance is often inseparable from the right of ecosystems to remain vibrant and intact.

I know a lot of people would find it offensive or inappropriate to hear the following words coming out of the mouth of an ardent abortion-rights advocate, but I believe the unborn have certain inalienable rights we must fiercely defend. They have the right to the same amount of clean air and water we enjoyed. They have the right to the same opportunities for self-realization and useful work we had; the right to the same ration of beauty and biodiversity. They have the right not to live lives which are the more miserable for our actions. All generations have an equal right to life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness. The darkest and most horrifying human crime would be for one generation to decide to seize all it can, at the expense of all the others who are to come.


• My most deeply held belief is that humans can and must learn how to live on this planet with much less damage to the earth’s systems and other species. And I believe we can. If we learn from nature, who is our best teacher, then we do have a chance at change. I don’t believe humans are a plague or alien species, but I do worry that we may be heading towards our own extinction if we don’t change. Care for the Earth. Care for People. Try to equitably distribute surplus to your community.

After reflection I don’t know if this is my most deeply held belief because that might be of a more spiritual nature, but I do believe this is one of the most pressing things I hold dear.


• What I value above all else and what I genuinely crave, is a healthy vibrant and reciprocal relationship and connection with all creatures including the relationship I have with myself.

I include myself in this equation because as a woman* (and especially as a woman of colour) I really feel that the 'pornification' of mainstream culture has meant that I have spent a great deal of my life objectifying myself while being unaware that I was doing so.

Becoming aware of Feminist issues back in the late seventies and then identifying myself as a Feminist in the 80's was what first radicalized my politics. Unfortunately we feminists (as well as anyone who cared about anything worthy) lost horribly as mainstream culture became more and more pornified.

The very toxic and specific ideas of sexuality that have been sold to this culture (and continue to be) has meant that people commodify themselves and their relationships, and that leads to the commodification of everything.

For me the War against the planet is deeply connected to this commodification and misogyny. If we cannot value ourselves then how on earth will we value or stand up for anyone else?


• For me, I think it is connection that I value most.

That includes mostly and most strongly the obvious connection between myself and my family and friends, but when I think about it, It also includes whatever it is that connects me and makes me part of, well, everything. Maybe other words for the same thing are love or spirit.

Maybe that is too obvious and what you are really asking is what am I most connected to. For that if you were to draw concentric circles, in the middle circle would be my children, and my spouse would be in the next one. The next circle after that has a lot of family and friends and this farm is actually pretty near in. Some principles are probably in the next circle: It is important to treat people with love and respect. It is important to use the earth's resources minimally and carefully...

• As a parent, it seems to me, the answer to what I value most ought to be my child. In my case, that is my answer. That’s really a very expansive answer, not a narrow one. Because if what I care about most is my child, then righting the world’s wrongs and improving on what’s wonderful (or at least not further degrading it) is part of my job. There is so much wrong with the world that it’s easy to focus on that. It’s easy to be negative. Too easy. It’s harder to say, OK, this is what I can bite off and chew in an effort to make a difference. No one can fix the whole world, but everyone can make a difference.

So I would like to leave my daughter a planet that won’t continue to degrade at a horrific rate. I spend every day trying to reduce my own carbon footprint (except when I travel, and even then, I’m still conscious of what I buy and what I burn). I try not to waste water, another precious resource in increasingly short supply. I have taught my daughter to do these things, too.

I would like a better education system, a more enlightened mass of people. In my own small way, the messages I craft for my employer’s website and magazine continue to harp on these themes of trying to live in a more sustainable, harmonious way.

I would definitely like better government, which is why I will likely run for City Council next May. I could at least bring a little more enlightened discussion to the current council and maybe get a few more people to think about the impact of their actions (or inaction).

Finally, I want my daughter to be happy so I have to model happiness. This is something that has become increasingly difficult.

So while I know that much of the world is a very sad place, much of it is happy and wonderful and I will live daily in the hope of making it a bit happier and a bit more wonderful. That’s all any one person can do. And it does make a difference.

Time to Write Obama

(For those of you who get my Action Alerts, you've already seen this.)

I've just received a fantastic sample letter you could edit (or not) and send to President Obama (and your representatives, if you haven't already written them).

Laurie Williams and Allan Zabel of CarbonFees.org have done impeccable research once again.

Please read "Why Waxman-Markey Won't Work" at their website: http://carbonfees.org/home/WhyWaxman-MarkeyWontWorkJune-09.pdf.

and then use their sample letter as a template or write your own, but let Obama know that the current legislation doesn't begin to address this enormous problem, in fact it may hasten our demise.

And if you do this, I would really appreciate a note saying you did it. Thanks!

Brien